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Beth Anderson's avatar

Well said, Anthony, but I would counter that this is not solely a problem the male half of the species experiences. It is more of a human problem, because I, like countless other women, also have moments like this. We are not the fair, noble, gentle sex you describe. We are all the things you are, good and horrible, because we are all human. We all fight these demons, that's what it means to live in a society, to attempt to reign in these urges that would tear the fabric of civilization apart. Great bike, btw, I have a CBR600rr, and it tends to bring out elements of my personality best left unseen.

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Dr. Anthony Howard's avatar

Thanks Beth. Nice to know we are all fighting the demons. Better than fighting each other.

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Chris Howard's avatar

Brother, we need to catch up more! Appreciate your vulnerability and honesty. Never forget though, it is not just "I", it is "we".

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Jane Adshead-Grant's avatar

Thank you Anthony for sharing your gifts of reflection and writing here on a deeply personal topic. A provocative piece that both male and female can relate to. It's bold. It's beautiful. It's courageous and revealing all in one. I appreciate your insights and poetry of articulation.

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Trevor Waldock's avatar

This is a timely posting Anthony and one i have been reflecting on and journaling about myself over the past couple of day. We dont talk about it and yet it is vital that we do. Thank you for taking the risk

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Dr. Anthony Howard's avatar

Thank you Trevor. It did feel awfully risky, but I have had some wonderful feedback, both here and directly

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Beth Anderson's avatar

This is so true. And I was not trying to minimize what you stated in your post. Your transparency in talking about what are very deep and personal aspects of your personality is commendable and I realize, difficult to do!

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Dr. Anthony Howard's avatar

Thank you Beth. I did not feel at all minimised by your comment

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